Quote Originally Posted by OFTB View Post
Of course. Maybe she even wanted to get intimate "at some time". That doesn't mean she necessarily wanted it to happen at that time and place.



Really? It never occurred to you that maybe the girl liked you, wanted to get to know you better, maybe go out on a few dates with you, even become your girlfriend one day? Because honestly, most of the women I knew who met guys in bars at that age were thinking much more along those lines than "I hope he screws me in a dirty nightclub bathroom tonight."
You know what .. IN OUR YOUNGER DAYS . some of us may have been in this type of situation .. a little alchohol , a little groping on the dance floor or at the table...you would know that if you get into a secluded area of the place the guy is going to move in .. that is why you do NOT go to a secluded spot in the bar if you don't want it to go further .. hate to say it .. but I had some encounters in the alley behind my favorite bar and I knew DAMN well what was going to happen when I went outside with the guy. Not the BEST place to have a trist .. but hell it happened and I knew it was going to happen and most of you know that I am pretty much a prude these days !!!! Young and foolish back then ..

NONE OF US KNOW WHAT actually happened ..so all we can do is speculate .. and of course .. try to remember what we did when we were in our 20's or 30's for that matter .. A time when we thought we were invincible ..